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In addition to reading the guide below, I hope you will listen to this podcast I recorded that will teach you exactly how to give your man the perfect blow job. Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.
How to give the best blow jobs he'll ever have
I know some women hate performing oral sex on a guy, and I get it—having someone's junk thrusting inside your mouth and ugh, the annoying head push! But to me, there's nothing more empowering and exciting than to have full control of over a penis—and by effect, the man attached to it. Not to mention, unlike a hand job or even penetrative sexmen can't replicate the sensation of a blow job on their own obviously. Your mouth is wet and warm, like a vagina or a lubed-up handbut your lips and tongue are living, roving, irreplaceable works of art.
But like with any sex act, enjoying the experience yourself which, if you're going to do it, you absolutely should typically comes from having some level of confidence in yourself—and that comes from knowing what you're doing. So here's how to give the best blow job he'll ever have I swear —and making it more pleasurable for yourself in the process:.
By far the one rule for giving good head is acting like you want to be giving head. That's not to say you should pretend you like doing something in the bedroom if you straight-up don't. On that vein, never do something you're not comfortable with a sexual partner. But if you're going to consider going down a guy—which, if you're reading this article, it seems that you are—the best thing you can bring to the BJ party is a good attitude.
A blow job might count as oral sexbut that doesn't mean your mouth has to do all the work. If your jaw starts to feel sore or tired a few minutes into the job, you're likely suctioning too hard with your mouth. So shift some of the work to your hands, counting on them for pressure. If he's well-endowed go, girlyou can keep your mouth in one place and move your wet hand up and down separately.
Then from there, you can mix up your hand technique a bit. Try the Wrist Twist: With your mouth on his penis this is still oral sexrotate your firm wrist in clockwise circles as you move your hand up and down. Bring your other hand into the game once you've gotten your bearings. The best placement? Use it to cup and gently squeeze his balls. During one of the first blow jobs I ever gave to a guy I'd been dating for five months, so we were super comfortable with each othermy partner told me to spit on him. It freaked me out for a sec—I remember wondering if spitting was some weird fetish—but then realized he just liked it extra wet.
While every man is definitely different and has his own personal preferences, I've found that most agree that a good blow job requires a lot of saliva. On that note, keep a glass of water nearby to prevent dry mouth—you'll need it.
When you're blowing him, your tongue provides the warmth, texture, and wetness that he can't get elsewhere. To maximize its sensation, Marin suggests keeping your tongue soft in your mouth when you're moving up and down the majority of your blow jobthen using the tip of your tongue to trace the head and frenulum—the underside where the penis head if circumcised meets the shaft. Those two areas, especially the frenulum, are packed with nerve endings, so he'll go crazy. You can also use the flat side of your tongue to lick from the bottom of his shaft to the very tip and down again, or throw in a few tongue flicks.
These are more like little garnishes to sprinkle in—and tbh, a little porn-esque, so call on your inner kink. At some point during my writing career in women's magazines, I picked up a tip from a sexpert I wish I could remember who!
I almost hate sharing it, but in the name of better blow jobs for all As you suck on him, try to keep your lips in a slightly fish-face position—pretend you're about to say "purple. Deep throating—where you take his member so far into your mouth, it's in your throat—is definitely an advanced skill. For two words: gag reflex.
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Some women's gag reflex is more easily activated than others, but if you're able to train it—I did by practicing on, no joke, frozen ice pops—you can surprise and by that, I mean SHOCK your partner with moments of deep throating. Not only does deep throating feel amazing to them your throat is obviously tighter than their mouthbut guys also love seeing their entire length somehow fit inside your mouth.
Back to that visual thing that Marin talked about. A word of caution: Ease into this, and only when you can breathe well through your nose.
No penis is worth choking over. Not all guys like to have their backside touched at all.
How do you keep your mouth wet during blowjobs?
But some all-caps love it. If you're into the idea, Marin suggests asking your partner if he likes having a finger in or around his butt, or if he's ever had anyone try. You'll be able to gauge if he's down to experiment, really wants it, or is hands-down against it.
No judgment either way. If you're both game, move a finger or two toward his perineum or "taint" —the area between his scrotum and anus—and go from there. The prostate lies right under the perineum and is known to be the "male G-spot.
Go try them on your partner and wear your invisible crown with pride. You earned it. Weight Loss. United States.
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